Mistress Kaz
Mistress Kaz
Occupation: Dominatrix
Location: Reading, Berkshire, United Kingdom
The Sex in My Business: I sell BDSM movies, as well as webcam and real-life BDSM sessions to slaves, in which I offer a safe space where to explore their fetishes and learn how to become more subservient to women. I also sell erotic novels.
A Typical Day: My days vary. Sometimes I’m putting a slave in restraints and teaching him discipline, giving a “sissy” (a man who wants to look and feel like a woman) a makeover and training them how to act like a woman, or maybe filming a BDSM scene in a dungeon.
The Best Part: I love shooting BDSM movies because I really enjoy getting into the roleplay side of things. It’s also fascinating to watch a slave’s journey as they become empowered when they learn to accept their fetish and their submissive side.
The Worst Part: I really dislike dealing with time-wasters — they can be very draining.
How I Got Here: I’ve always been very adventurous and open to new experiences. I used to do erotic phone chats on Sportxxx TV, where I had many regulars who wanted to be dominated on the phone. Later, webcam technology offered a great way to interact with slaves. Real-time sessions were a natural progression from there, as I was curious about putting the skills I had learned into face-to-face practice.
What Society Thinks: My family wishes I had more time to pursue my writing, my boyfriend thinks it’s easy money (it isn’t), and I have received mixed opinions from the general public. Some find it fascinating, whilst others think it’s disgusting. Unfortunately, sometimes the negative opinions of some have driven them to do inappropriate things, such as on one occasion when some people I only vaguely knew through an associate decided to “out” me by sharing a lot of my links all over Facebook. I sold a lot more videos that week, that’s for sure! I also went through a period of feeling very anxious and paranoid as a result of social attitudes and was eager for people to like me, which affected my self-worth for a time. However, I have ultimately learned to accept myself. My job is not my identity, but I am not ashamed of it. It has really helped me to explore my psyche and the psychology of others.
When I’m Not at Work: I like to swim, cycle, read a good thriller, or binge something on Netflix. I also spend a lot of free time writing short stories, and I’m currently working on my memoir.
Published in Issue III: Language